most important thing in a relationship...

wow just read yumi's blog so cool... bompy = girls' bestfriend? i also want to be bompy leh... can i? hehe... anyway just came back from my nite duty... super shacked... gonna bath and get my sleep but also cannot sleep long cos must wake up to cook rice and then have my dinner... damn still got one more nite to go but never mind lah me gonna disrupt in 2 months time... k lah from my topic i gonna share one thing which i felt is very important in a relationship... i feel that anything that bothers one about the relationship must be brought up for discussion... bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together... over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise... you need to know now, can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you? never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you... this is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person... if you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate...